Disability is not a Dirty Word

Non-disabled people, even those working in fields like special education or therapy, often have an incredible discomfort with the word "disability." This discomfort does disabled people a disservice and leads to restricting access to necessary services, supports, and accommodations.

Recently, during an IEP meeting, I referred to the child as "a child with a disability." Some school team members visibly recoiled, and the parent told me that one even rolled their eyes. This was a child who had already qualified for services under IDEA. As an advocate, this is deeply concerning. If we can't comfortably and accurately describe a child as disabled, how can we possibly meet their needs?

Disability is a legal term that carries legal protections. Many disabled advocates have fought tirelessly to implement the laws that protect us today, such as Section 504, ADA, and IDEA. Importantly, many disabled people prefer identity-first language and have no issue identifying themselves as such.

We must overcome our discomfort with the term "disability" to ensure that disabled individuals receive the respect, recognition, and support they deserve. Only then can we create a truly inclusive and supportive environment.